The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus #3 : getting really fucking good

Ok, so with the 2 previous post (general principles and the 3.5 axes of experimentation), now you know everything you need to give her a great orgasm. But do you wanna know how to give her an AMAZING orgasm ? Keep reading ;)

It's not just the clit

For the moment, I've focused my advice on how to lick the clit, because that's where the action is.

But don't forget the rest or her pussy, especially the inner labia and the vaginal opening. The little fold between the inner and outer labia is also very sensitive.

Giving a good, slow lick with the flat of your tongue, going up and ending on the clit generally works wonders.

All around her pussy is good too, but more at the beginning. I mean, in the middle of a blowjob, it's not really your thigh that you want her to touch. Same thing.

Well, it's worth a try. But generally, it's not what's going to work best once you've got up to speed.

It's not just the tongue

Just because you’re licking her doesn't mean you've lost your hands.

USE YOUR FUCKING HANDS.

As we've already seen, your thumbs can be used to lift the hood if necessary. Or just one hand if you've got the technique. Or not at all if the clit is out saying hello.

Where to stick your fingers?

But beyond that, you can obviously touch her with your fingers. Anywhere on the vulva works, but there are two main places that work very well:

• the inside of the inner labia
  
  Here's my secret technique, which works in at least 80% of cases (and sometimes a FUCKIN LOT): lightly stroke the pad of your thumb (not your fingernail, of course) over her inner labia, from top to bottom. It's best to place your thumb horizontally, perpendicular to the vertical axis of the vulva. That way, you can easily move up and down. Your thumb will move a bit like a windshield wiper.
  

  

  (still my amazing Illustrator skills 😅)
  
  I think it's pretty much the equivalent of girls touching our balls during a blowjob: fuckin amazing.
  

• put a finger in it
  
  You probably didn't need me to think about that.
  
  But the vagina feels good for them. When I read "92*% of chicks don't cum during penetration*", I understand "92*% of chicks fuck guys who don't know how*". Note that this number is shared by the same accounts showing diagrams of the clitoris, a mostly internal organ enveloping... the vagina. Doesn’t make any sense. If it’s mainly in the vagina, there should be a lot of pleasure derived from there.
  
  In other words: they fuckin love it (usually).
  
  In my experience, they love two things in particular:

  • the exact moment when something that’s a little big goes in and spreads the vaginal opening a little
    
    The best way to do this with your fingers is with your thumb. Because, well, it's wider. What usually works very well is to bend it slightly, so that the first joint pops out a bit, and she feels something hard every time you go in and out. Guaranteed effect. I even knew a chick who came ONLY like that (took me some time to figure it out !).
    

  • Stimulating the G-spot
    
    The best technique is to use the middle finger, then when it goes in easily, add the ring finger, put them in with a depth of about 1.5-2 phalanges, and make a "come this way" movement upwards (like Neo in Matrix). Here too, you can vary pressure and speed. Angle a little too.
    
    You can normally feel the G-spot, the texture is a bit rougher, but it depends on women. If you can't feel it, just listen when it makes her moan.