How to fuck well in weird-ish positions - The Ultimate Guide to Fucking #7
At last, the last post in this Ultimate Guide to Fucking. So far we’ve seen :
The paramount importance of the angle (always dreamt of using “paramount” in an actual sentence)
And all you need to know about the different “families” of positions :
This week this is the last post in this series, and we’ll be talking about basically all the other positions that didn’t fit in previous categories. They’re not really “weird”, but hey, “How to fuck well in all the other positions that didn’t fit in previous categories” wasn’t really catchy 🤷♂️
Spoons
Arguably, I could have put this one in the “from behind” category, but to be honest I just forgot, so here we are 🤷♂️
Spooning is actually a very versatile position, because the variants can bring very different things to the table.
The main common feature is spooning is not very intense physically speaking, so it’s good if you’re getting tired of all that thrusting, or you just have bad cardio. It’s especially good if you need to fuck fast in order to cum, but it’s been 20 minutes now and fuckin that quick in doggy makes you feel like you’re running a fuckin marathon. It allows you to move only your hips.
You can have several versions of spooning :
Classic spoons
What people would usually refer as spooning is you’re both lying on your side, you’re behind her, and your bodies are close.
If her legs are pretty much straight, this usually doesn’t give way for deep penetration (which can be good or bad depending on what you and she want at the moment).
This one is good for some connection (you’re basically hugging), and can give you a good opportunity for slow sensual sex.
Add some clit play
If she spreads her legs a little bit, then you have a way to play with her clit. Or she can do it. Anyway, it can be an excellent position for this, especially for women who like clit play way more than penetration but still like something in there.
You don’t have much to handle except one hand and moving your hips, so it’s more manageable, and you can also stay in this position for quite a long time, which is good if she needs some time to get there.
You can focus on fingering her properly (see my Ultimate Guide to Fingering by clicking here), and just add some penetration on autopilot (she can also move her hips).
Go harder
The last option you have is to either move your upper body away from hers, or the other way around, so you’re basically in doggy but lying on your side. This could be called “lazy doggy”.
(she doesn’t have to touch her ankles like in the illustration ^^)
This allows you several things :
Deeper penetration
A better angle to hit her G spot
Generally more space to fuck her harder
A nice view, very similar to doggy, without the effort
In my experience, this is a very good position to make women cum by penetration (providing you respected the other advice in this series of course).
Face to face on the side
Just as you can easily transition from doggy or prone bone to spoons, you can also easily transition from missionary to being face to face on the side.
Or also if you’re just lying in bed side by side and start kissing and turning each other on, it can easily turn into this.
To allow for penetration, your partner will generally have to fold one leg up.
She can also fold both, and in that case you’ll have your waist resting on her thigh. This can be more or less comfortable depending on both of your body types : too much weight on her thigh can hurt after a while, but also a thicc thigh can make you uncomfortable.
Just try to see what works best.
If it works for how your bodies are, this can be a very good position, quite underrated in my opinion. It can be good for very slow connected sex, looking in each other’s eyes, but you can also start fucking harder and faster, and it can give you a pretty good angle and allow for deep penetration, especially if she folds both of her legs up.
“Lap dance”
This one needs you to sit on something. Generally it’s gonna be the edge of the bed, but a chair, a couch or basically anything will do.
She can either face you or turn your back to you, but generally facing you works better with a chair, because she’s got space to put her legs on the sides (otherwise it’s just cowgirl).
Anyway I think the version from behind is better : it allows for deeper penetration, a quicker rhythm, and it’s one of the few positions where she can comfortably literally fuck your dick with some speed. The sensation is pretty different from most positions in my opinion (except squatting cowgirl which feels pretty close), probably because of this specifically.
It kinda feels like being sucked but with a pussy.
The view is also great, especially if you put a mirror in front of her. In that case : this is one of the sexiest position you can use. Including for her : she’ll be able to see your cock going in and out VERY clearly.
Ok, that’s all for the positions. I don’t think I’ve forgotten anything essential (my goal wasn’t to be exhaustive, but realistic, and give you the main ones and how to use them to their best potential).
If you think I should have talked about something else, please feel free to tell me 🙂
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