How to manscape
Ok, so in the previous post, I hopefully convinced you that grooming yourself and manscaping were important for your sex life, and also gave you sort of a grooming to-do list, so we’re on the same page, and you’re 100% sure not to make a big mistake.
This week, I’ll give you a complete guide about manscaping, and particularly around the dick. I’m gonna talk about the rest of your body only very quickly, because I’m not especially hairy, so I don’t have hairy men problems.
You can use the same tools I’m gonna recommend anyway.
The not-dick areas
So, generally speaking, there’s no big golden rule about body hair. It depends on what your genes got you, and the style you’re going for.
If you’re very hairy, you can either want to rock it naturally, keep it contained, or shave it off entirely. The most important is you feel good in your body.
That being said, I think it’s a bit hypocritical to say we shave or we don’t “only for ourselves”. Of course, if 95% of women were to suddenly hate a certain length of body hair, that’d influence your choices. Let’s be honest : it’s not like in our society we’re generally the pickiest. So most of you will want to put all chances on your side.
So in my experience, the most extreme ends of the spectrum are more polarizing, which means some women will love it, but also some will hate it. So if you’re very hairy, trimming your body hair will generally be a safer choice altogether. You won’t be too or not enough hairy for some women tastes.
If you’re kinda hairy but not too much, generally keeping it close to what you have is also a safe choice.
I think the most polarizing is back hair : if they stick out even when you have a shirt on, it’s probably better to shave them off, or at the very least trim them.
I’d also think about trimming your armpits (not shaving, just keep it short). Personally I smell way less of sweat if I do it, which is definitely something to consider.
What to do down there, and how to
Ok, let’s talk about what to do down there. Here’s what I’d recommend to make your dick the most appealing.
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